When my wife left to go on her trip to Belgium, I was left home alone without a car, and without any fresh fruits or vegetables. This reminded me a lot of when I was first living on my own after College. I had a one bedroom apartment that pretty much always had a small stockpile of junk food, and barely any fresh food at all. I would eat canned ravioli, make up some Kraft Dinner macaroni and cheese, or toss a frozen pizza into the oven.
I didn’t have any easy way to get to the grocery store and back, and so the convenience store that was close by was my primary source for food. Chips and soft drinks were cheap and fairly filling, and since my wife has been gone, that is more or less how I have been living.
I decided last night, while thinking about the junk food I have bought over the last two months or so, that it is time to turn my life around. The bachelor life is for “young” people, and now that I am a twenty-five year old adult, I have to make responsible food choices so that I can continue doing the things that I love for a very long time.
It makes me wonder if most people go through a shift in their dietary needs around this point in their life? If you are a twenty or thirty-something, and you are have made the shift from junk food, to healthy food. I would love to hear about your process. Was it your wife that made you make the shift? Or did you do it on your own accord, one step at a time?
Tags: bachelor, college, frozen pizza, junk food, Week One
I devolve the same way when my wife goes away - not always, but it *is* a slippery slope. I started by cutting out french fries, my Achilles heel of the food world.
In the end, what works best for me is to count calories. Its quantifiable, measurable, and makes it easy to track, and it helped me loose nearly 100 pounds, and my wife 80 pounds. I have, although crept back up, so I’m back on the wagon, as it were.
David,
I am on the same page with you in this scenario my friend. I try to keep fruit and rice cakes in my desk at work for when I need to fill the void of space that seems to keep me hungry.
Its weird to think that larger individuals need 2000 calories a day to “survive.” Personally, I feel fine just taking in about 1200 a day and I seem to be just fine: mood, activity, brain function and all that jazz.
Glad to see you’re doing something about the weight; I’m right there with you and will keep you informed on my progress as well!